They act like grown children who kicks and screams when they don't get their way but rather, they will kick and scream at you. But while around you, they'll take small jabs or try to one up you. They talk negatively about you behind your back because they really don't like you but they need you, like a car needs fuel to drive. If you know someone and on IG their life portrays something very different, you may be dealing with a compulsive liar / narcissistic personality. The highlight of their day is likes on IG. They usually like to allude to being some type of model or socialite with booking info. Instagram is where they post redundant selfies, pictures of their extravagant lifestyles and their high fashioned bag, shoes or clothes.

The young narcissist thrives off attention on the internet. Which brings me to my next point, social media.

Usually the only people who envy them are the people that aren't close enough to see everything with them is smoke and mirrors.

They make comments like ' she's just jealous' 'I don't know why she envies me so much.' Yeah they thrive of people fearing them and envying them. They always think everyone around them is jealous. They mention something and then will never mention it again. They are just that determined to manipulate you. They're not as unaware as you think they are. They like to accuse other people of the very things they're guilty for. They may tell you something that really is about them but will throw someone else under the bus. We all have family members we don't talk too but if they demonize their own mothers, fathers and siblings, red flag. They laugh, they're blank, uninterested and brush it off or down play it and try to say its not as bad as what they had to go through. So if you show interest in them, they may seem flattered but they are really happy that someone is giving them the green light to become a victim to their horror. They get close to people who they feel they can manipulate, control and feel better around. Some keep to themselves and sit and watch everyone around them to see who would be an easy target. Some arent the social butterflies that we expect. All narcissist aren't the same on the outside. When they're NOT getting attention, affection, adoration, compliments, praise, what they want, they display rage. They are studying your actions because ironically, compulsive liars aren't very trusting, they assume people aren't who they appear to be, so instead of asking you questions about yourself, they watch you, study you and assume they know you. They don't want you to know who they really are and they don't want to know who you are. Their conversation always seem shallow because they're shallow. The more time you spend with a liar, the more you'll find out their lying.ĭo you ever notice compulsive liars keep everyone at a safe distance? You may not ever meet their friends or family because they fear they may get exposed and liars HATE to be exposed. I have noticed a trend with these people. I didnt really pay close attention when their lies didnt affect me but when I entered a relationship or a friendship with one of these chronic liars, they started to really tear my world apart. I have met my share of the pathalogical, compulsive liars.

Pathological liar and narcissist